If you live with anxiety, you may have noticed that understanding why you feel anxious doesn't always make the anxiety go away. You may know that you're safe, yet still feel tension in your chest. You may recognize that you're overthinking, but find it difficult to turn your thoughts off. Or you may be able to talk about what is bothering you while your body continues to feel stuck in a state of stress or alertness. This is one reason some people are interested in Brainspotti

One of the hardest relationship patterns to explain is wanting connection more than almost anything, while somehow ending up creating distance from the very people you care about.

There’s a particular kind of person I see in my therapy office over and over again. They're successful: On paper, they're doing everything "right." They have impressive careers, advanced degrees, thriving businesses, or lives that many people would envy.

Many people think that therapy works because the therapist knows what to say and has all kind of fancy trainings to heal their clients. If you've experienced developmental trauma, complex trauma or childhood trauma though, the healing often has far less to do with the advice and technique and much more to do with finally experiencing a relationship your nervous system hasn't known before.

"I don't think I have trauma. Nothing that bad happened to me." This is one of the most common phrases that we hear clients say. They often recognize that their childhoods may not have been the absolute best, but they don't want to call it "trauma" because they don't align with the word "abuse" for their situations.

The terms complex trauma and developmental trauma are often used interchangeably. While they share many similarities and frequently overlap, they are not exactly the same thing.

From the outside, your life might look impressive. You earned the degree, built the career, started the business, raised the family, you achieved goals that many people only dream about. Internally though, a different story often plays on repeat.

If you've spent years in traditional talk therapy, your first brainspotting session might feel like you walked into the wrong room. There's no couch. No clipboard. No prompts to "tell me more about that."

When most people hear the word "trauma," they picture a single, devastating event like a car accident or violent attack. The clinical world calls this acute trauma, referring to one terrible moment that splits your life into before and after.